Over protective Parenting

A man an avid Gardner saw a small Butterfly laying few eggs in one of the pots in his garden. Since that day he looked at the egg with ever growing curiosity and eagerness. The egg started to move and shake a little. He was exited to see a new life coming up right in front of his eyes. He spent hours watching the egg now. The egg started to expand and develop cracks.. A tiny head and antennae started to come out ever so slowly. The man's excitement knew no bounds. He got his magnifying glasses and sat to watch the life and body of a pupa coming out. He saw the struggle of the tender pupa and couldn't resist his urge to "HELP".
He went and got a tender forceps to help the egg break, a nip here a nip there to help the struggling life and the pupa was out. The man was ecstatic! He waited now each day for the pupa to grow and fly like a beautiful butterfly, but alas that never happened. The larvae pupa had a oversized head and kept crawling along in the pot for the full 4 weeks and died!

Depressed the man went to his botanist friend and asked the reason. His friend told him the struggle to break out of the egg helps the larvae to send blood to its wings and the head push helps the head to remain small so that the tender wings can support it thru its 4 week life cycle. In his eagerness to help, the man destroyed a beautiful life!
Struggles help all of us, that's why a wee bit of effort goes a long way to develop our strength to face life's difficulties!
As parents, we sometimes go too far trying to help and protect our kids from life's harsh realities and disappointments. We don't want our kids to struggle like we did.
But Harvard psychiatrist 《not verified》 Dr. Dan Kindlon says that over-protected children are more likely to struggle in relationships and with challenges.
We're sending our kids the message that they're not capable of helping themselves.
To quote clinical psychologist
Dr. Wendy 's Moral: 《not verified》
"It  is  Our Job  to  prepare  Our  Children  for  the  Road & Not  prepare  the  Road
for  Our  Children"

Social media and its risks

A guy sends you a friend request. You don't know him, but he's got a cute profile pic, so you accept his friend request. It's your baby girl's first day of school ! She looks SO cute in her new outfit you just have to take a picture and put it on Facebook so all your friends and family can see. You're so excited dropping her off that you "check in" to her school on Fb saying "I can't believe how big she's gotten. Time sure flies. One proud momma/daddy right here!".... Meanwhile, the mystery guy whose friend request you hurriedly accepted earlier this morning is saving that picture you posted of your daughter in her cute new outfit to his phone and texting it to 60 other grown men across the world with the caption "Indian female. Age 5. Brown hair,black eyes. Rs.70,000/-." Not only did you provide a picture of your little girl to a child trafficker,you've handed him the name and exact location of her school on a silver cyber platter. You go to pick her up at 3:00 this afternoon, but she's nowhere to be found. Little do you know, your precious baby girl was sold to a 43-year-old pedophile before you even stepped foot off campus this morning, and now she's on her way to South Africa with a bag over her head,confused, terrified and crying because a man she's never seen before picked her up from school, and now she doesn't know where her parents are, where she's going, or what's gonna happen to her.STOP ADDING STRANGERS ON FACEBOOK And STOP posting everything about your life on Facebook..avoid keeping children in profile pics. I had to share it for the sake of all kids and parents , thanks

3 unbelievably simple parenting ideas that work

1. Children need a minimum of eight  touches during a day to feel connected to a parent.

If they're going through a particularly challenging time, it's a minimum of 12 a day. This doesn't have to be a big deal; it could be the straightening of a collar, a pat on the shoulder or a simple hug.

2. Each day, children need one meaningful eye-to-eye conversation with a parent.

It is especially important for babies to have that eye contact, but children of all ages need us to slow down and look them in the eyes.

3. There are nine minutes during the day that have the greatest impact on a child:

the first three minutes right after they wake up
the three minutes after they come home from school
the last three minutes of the day before they go to bed
We need to make those moments special and help our children feel loved.
These are simple, right? Nothing really earth-shattering here.

But try it.
1⃣ Whenever u feel like scolding or beating your child, take a deep breath, or count 1-10 and then act.
2⃣ Let's ask them to study their favorite subject on their own..
3⃣ Send them to one paper without studying at all..
4⃣ Remember what our kids are learning in 5th std is taught to 7th std abroad..
5⃣ Lets keep our kids out of unwanted competition.
6⃣ 80% of what kids are learning ,won't be useful to them in future..
7⃣ Our kids can really afford to do whatever they want to do in future .
8⃣ Higher degrees don't guaranty success and happiness..
9⃣ Not all the highly educated people do well professionally.
And not all those who do well professionally are the happiest ones..
🔟 Kids are always in a party mood.. don't spoil it .

Pass this on to as many  parents as u can.

Worlds 8 superb sentences

Worlds 8  superb  sentences
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Shakespeare :👌
Never  play  with the feelings
of  others  because  you may
win the  game but the  risk is
that  you  will surely  lose
the person  for a  life time.
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Napoleon.👌
The world  suffers  a  lot. Not
because  of  the  violence  of
bad people, But because   of
the silence of good people!
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Einstein :👌
I  am  thankful  to  all those
who  said  NO  to  me   It's
because  of  them  I  did  it
myself.
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Abraham Lincoln :👌
If friendship is your weakest
point  then  you  are  the
strongest  person  in the
world.
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Shakespeare :👌
Laughing  faces  do  not
mean that  there is  absence
of sorrow!  But it means that
they  have the ability to deal
with it.
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William  Arthur : 👌
Opportunities   are  like
sunrises, if  you  wait too
long  you  can miss them.
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Hitler : 👌
When  you  are  in  the light,
Everything follows  you, But
when  you  enter  into   the
dark, Even your own shadow
doesn't  follow  you.
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Shakespeare : 👌
Coin  always  makes  sound
but  the  currency  notes are
always  silent.  So  when  your value  increases
keep quiet ...!

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વિસરાઇ ગયેલા બાળગીતો :
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મામાનું ઘર કેટલે
દીવા બળે એટલે
દીવા મેં તો દીઠા
મામા લાગે મીઠા
મામી મારી ભોળી
મીઠાઈ લાવે મોળી
મોળી મીઠાઈ ભાવે નહિ
રમકડાં તો લાવે નહિ
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અડકો દડકો
દહીંનો દડકો
દહીં દૂજે, દરબાર દૂજે
વાડી માંહીનો વેલો દૂજે
ઉલ મુલ ધતુરાનું ફુલ
ખાઈ જા શેરડી ખજૂર
—————————————-
હાથીભાઈ તો જાડા
લાગે મોટા પાડા
આગળ ઝૂલે લાંબી સૂંઢ
પાછળ ઝૂલે ટૂંકી પૂંછ
—————————————-
વારતા રે વારતા
ભાભો ઢોર ચારતા
ચપટી બોરા લાવતા
છોકરાઓને સમજવતા
એક છોકરો રિસાણો
કોઠી પાછળ ભિંસાણો
કોઠી પડી આડી
છોકરે રાડ પાડી
અરરર માડી
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મેં એક બિલાડી પાળી છે
તે રંગે બહુ રુપાળી છે
તે હળવે હળવે ચાલે છે
ને અંધારામાં ભાળે છે
તે દૂધ ખાય, દહીં ખાય
ઘી તો ચપ ચપ ચાટી જાય
તે ઉંદરને ઝટપટ ઝાલે
પણ કૂતરાથી બીતી ચાલે
તેના ડીલ પર ડાઘ છે
તે મારા ઘરનો વાઘ છે
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એક બિલાડી જાડી
તેણે પહેરી સાડી
સાડી પહેરી ફરવા ગઈ
તળાવમાં તે તરવા ગઈ
તળાવમાં તો મગર
બિલ્લીને આવ્યા ચક્કર
સાડીનો છેડો છૂટી ગયો
મગરના મોઢામાં આવી ગયો
મગર બિલ્લીને ખાઈ ગયો

મિત્રોમાં શેર કરીને તેમને પણ  યાદ અપાવો

Ayurvedic tips for illness doha

🔴आयुर्वेदिक दोहे🔴
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१Ⓜ
दही मथें माखन मिले,
केसर संग मिलाय,
होठों पर लेपित करें,
रंग गुलाबी आय..
२Ⓜ
बहती यदि जो नाक हो,
बहुत बुरा हो हाल,
यूकेलिप्टिस तेल लें,
सूंघें डाल रुमाल..

३Ⓜ
अजवाइन को पीसिये ,
गाढ़ा लेप लगाय,
चर्म रोग सब दूर हो,
तन कंचन बन जाय..

४Ⓜ
अजवाइन को पीस लें ,
नीबू संग मिलाय,
फोड़ा-फुंसी दूर हों,
सभी बला टल जाय..

५Ⓜ
अजवाइन-गुड़ खाइए,
तभी बने कुछ काम,
पित्त रोग में लाभ हो,
पायेंगे आराम..

६Ⓜ
ठण्ड लगे जब आपको,
सर्दी से बेहाल,
नीबू मधु के साथ में,
अदरक पियें उबाल..

७Ⓜ
अदरक का रस लीजिए.
मधु लेवें समभाग,
नियमित सेवन जब करें,
सर्दी जाए भाग..

८Ⓜ
रोटी मक्के की भली,
खा लें यदि भरपूर,
बेहतर लीवर आपका,
टी० बी० भी हो दूर..

९Ⓜ
गाजर रस संग आँवला,
बीस औ चालिस ग्राम,
रक्तचाप हिरदय सही,
पायें सब आराम..

१०Ⓜ
शहद आंवला जूस हो,
मिश्री सब दस ग्राम,
बीस ग्राम घी साथ में,
यौवन स्थिर काम..

११Ⓜ
चिंतित होता क्यों भला,
देख बुढ़ापा रोय,
चौलाई पालक भली,
यौवन स्थिर होय..

१२Ⓜ
लाल टमाटर लीजिए,
खीरा सहित सनेह,
जूस करेला साथ हो,
दूर रहे मधुमेह..

१३Ⓜ
प्रातः संध्या पीजिए,
खाली पेट सनेह,
जामुन-गुठली पीसिये,
नहीं रहे मधुमेह..

१४Ⓜ
सात पत्र लें नीम के,
खाली पेट चबाय,
दूर करे मधुमेह को,
सब कुछ मन को भाय..

१५Ⓜ
सात फूल ले लीजिए,
सुन्दर सदाबहार,
दूर करे मधुमेह को,
जीवन में हो प्यार..

१६Ⓜ
तुलसीदल दस लीजिए,
उठकर प्रातःकाल,
सेहत सुधरे आपकी,
तन-मन मालामाल..

१७Ⓜ
थोड़ा सा गुड़ लीजिए,
दूर रहें सब रोग,
अधिक कभी मत खाइए,
चाहे मोहनभोग.

१८Ⓜ
अजवाइन और हींग लें,
लहसुन तेल पकाय,
मालिश जोड़ों की करें,
दर्द दूर हो जाय..

१९Ⓜ
ऐलोवेरा-आँवला,
करे खून में वृद्धि,
उदर व्याधियाँ दूर हों,
जीवन में हो सिद्धि..

२०Ⓜ
दस्त अगर आने लगें,
चिंतित दीखे माथ,
दालचीनि का पाउडर,
लें पानी के साथ..

२१Ⓜ
मुँह में बदबू हो अगर,
दालचीनि मुख डाल,
बने सुगन्धित मुख, महक,
दूर होय तत्काल..

२२Ⓜ
कंचन काया को कभी,
पित्त अगर दे कष्ट,
घृतकुमारि संग आँवला,
करे उसे भी नष्ट..

२३Ⓜ
बीस मिली रस आँवला,
पांच ग्राम मधु संग,
सुबह शाम में चाटिये,
बढ़े ज्योति सब दंग..

२४Ⓜ
बीस मिली रस आँवला,
हल्दी हो एक ग्राम,
सर्दी कफ तकलीफ में,
फ़ौरन हो आराम..

२५Ⓜ
नीबू बेसन जल शहद ,
मिश्रित लेप लगाय,
चेहरा सुन्दर तब बने,
बेहतर यही उपाय..

२६.Ⓜ
मधु का सेवन जो करे,
सुख पावेगा सोय,
कंठ सुरीला साथ में ,
वाणी मधुरिम होय.

२७.Ⓜ
पीता थोड़ी छाछ जो,
भोजन करके रोज,
नहीं जरूरत वैद्य की,
चेहरे पर हो ओज..

२८Ⓜ
ठण्ड अगर लग जाय जो
नहीं बने कुछ काम,
नियमित पी लें गुनगुना,
पानी दे आराम..

२९Ⓜ
कफ से पीड़ित हो अगर,
खाँसी बहुत सताय,
अजवाइन की भाप लें,
कफ तब बाहर आय..

३०Ⓜ
अजवाइन लें छाछ संग,
मात्रा पाँच गिराम,
कीट पेट के नष्ट हों,
जल्दी हो आराम..

३१Ⓜ
छाछ हींग सेंधा नमक, x
दूर करे सब रोग, जीरा
उसमें डालकर,
पियें सदा यह भोग..।

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