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Wednesday, February 25, 2015

Parenting

35 Ways to Respect your children views and ways to know them in a better way. Must read

1. Put away your phone in their
     presence.

2. Pay attention to what they
    are saying.

3. Accept their opinions.

4. Engage in their     
     conversations.

5. Look at them with respect.

6. Always praise them.

7. Share good news with them.

8. Avoid sharing bad news with
    them.

9. Speak well of their friends
    and loved ones to them.

10. Keep in remembrance the 
      good things they did.

11. If they repeat a story, listen
      like it's the first time they
      tell it.

12. Don't bring up painful
       memories from the past.

13. Avoid side conversations in
      their presence.

14. Sit respectfully around
       them.

15. Don't belittle/criticize their
      opinions and thoughts.

16. Avoid cutting them off when    they speak.

17. Respect their age.

18. Avoid hitting/disciplining
      their grandchildren around
      them.

19. Accept their advice and
      direction.

20. Give them the power of 
      leadership when they are
      present.

21. Avoid raising your voice at
      them.

22. Avoid walking in front or
      ahead of them.

23. Avoid eating before them.

24. Avoid glaring at them.

25. Fill them with ur
      appreciation even when
      they don't think they
       deserve it.

26. Avoid putting your feet up in front of them or sitting with your back to them.

27. Don't speak ill of them to
      the point where others
      speak ill of them too.

28. Keep them in prayers
      always possible.

29. Avoid seeming bored or
      tired of them in their
      presence.

30. Avoid laughing at their
      faults/mistakes.

31. Do a task before they ask
      you to.

32. Continuously visit them.

33. Choose your words carefully    when speaking with them.

34. Call them by names they
       like.

35. Make them your priority
      above anything.

Children's are parents treasure and their most precious gift on this land. They must have seen the world lesser than you but they see it in a different way which you need to appreciate. Listen to them and try giving them as much time as you can. These moments are more precious than anything in this world

Wednesday, February 18, 2015

Sunday, February 1, 2015

Hindu rituals and Science

22 Reasons To Believe ancient Bharat Is Based On Science
                   वृक्ष
People are advised to worship Neem and Banyan tree in the morning. Inhaling the air near these trees, is good for health.
                  योग
If you are trying to look ways for stress management, there can't be anything other than Hindu Yoga aasan Pranayama (inhaling and exhaling air slowly using one of the nostrils).
                  प्रतिष्ठान
Hindu temples are built scientifically. The place where an idol is placed in the temple is called 'Moolasthanam'. This 'Moolasthanam' is where earth's magnetic waves are found to be maximum, thus benefitting the worshipper.
                  तुलसी
Every Hindu household has a Tulsi plant. Tulsi or Basil leaves when consumed, keeps our immune system strong to help prevent the H1N1 disease.
                  मन्त्र
The rhythm of Vedic mantras, an ancient Hindu practice, when pronounced and heard are believed to cure so many disorders of the body like blood pressure.
                 तिलक
Hindus keep the holy ash in their forehead after taking a bath, this removes excess water from your head.
                 कुंकुम
Women keep kumkum bindi on their forehead that protects from being hypnotised.
                 हस्त ग्रास
Eating with hands might be looked down upon in the west but it connects the body, mind and soul, when it comes to food.
                 पत्तल
Hindu customs requires one to eat on a leaf plate. This is the most eco-friendly way as it does not require any chemical soap to clean it and it can be discarded without harming the environment.banana; palash leaves
                 कर्णछेदन
Piercing of baby's ears is actually part of acupuncture treatment. The point where the ear is pierced helps in curing Asthma.
                 हल्दी
Sprinkling turmeric mixed water around the house before prayers and after. Its known that turmeric has antioxidant, antibacterial and anti-inflammatory qualities.
                 गोबर
The old practice of pasting cow dung on walls and outside their house prevents various diseases/viruses as this cow dung is anti-biotic and rich in minerals.

                गोमूत्र
Hindus consider drinking cow urine to cure various illnesses. Apparently, it does balance bile, mucous and airs and a remover of heart diseases and effect of poison.
                शिक्षा
The age-old punishment of doing sit-ups while holding the ears actually makes the mind sharper and is helpful for those with Autism, Asperger's Syndrome, learning difficulties and behavioural problems.
                दिया 
Lighting 'diyas' or oil or ghee lamps in temples and house fills the surroundings with positivity and recharges your senses.
                जनेऊ
Janeu, or the string on a Brahmin's body, is also a part of Acupressure 'Janeu' and keeps the wearer safe from several diseases.
                तोरण
Decorating the main door with 'Toran'- a string of mangoes leaves;neem leaves;ashoka leaves actually purifies the atmosphere.
                चरणस्पर्श
Touching your elder's feet keeps your backbone in good shape.
               चिताग्नि
Cremation or burning the dead, is one of the cleanest form of disposing off the dead body.
                ॐ
Chanting the mantra 'Om' leads to significant reduction in heart rate which leads to a deep form of relaxation with increased alertness.
           हनुमान चालीसा
Hanuman Chalisa, according to NASA, has the exact calculation of the distance between Sun and the Earth.
                शंख
The 'Shankh Dhwani' creates the sound waves by which many harmful germs, insects are destroyed. The mosquito breeding is also affected by Shankh blowing and decreases the spread of malaria.
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